Confrontation

Never confront your spouse until you're certain that you have enough Evidence to make your case. And never reveal all of your Evidence at once. Most Cheating Spouses will try to concoct a story to fit the Evidence presented (for example, usually the husband won't confess). But, if you withhold some Evidence, and let your spouse create a story, it gives you the opportunity to use the remaining Evidence as leverage. And by strategically withholding Evidence, your spouse will start to question exactly how much you know, increasing the odds that he or she will tell you the truth.